Editing, Writing

Word Wednesday: They’re, Their, and There


Perhaps you’ve seen this photo floating around Facebook? I know I have!


I know we’re talking about three different words here – not just one – but, in my book, these three all go together for one very simple reason: Many people just don’t understand (or don’t care) how or when to use each of these words correctly. For example, check out this graph posted by Grammar 101 author Michael Kwan.



Now, granted, this graph represents the correct/incorrect homophone usage by a small online sampling of people ages 12 to 20, but I contend that this is not just an adolescent problem. Adults use these words incorrectly, too – both online and off. I know. I’ve seen it. A lot.


Why all the confusion? I’m not exactly sure, but I do know that it’s not a very justifiable confusion. It’s just that it’s not that hard to figure out which homophone you should be using…when you know a few little tricks. That’s why I’ve decided to write this post – to provide you with a foolproof method of figuring out which of these pesky homophones is the best to use for you’re situation. (Oh, look at that! I just thought of an idea for my next homophone Word Wednesday post!)


1). They’re is a contraction, which means “a shortening of a word, syllable, or word group by omission of a sound or letter”. In this case, two words are being shortened by the elimination of just one simple letter…an “a”.


In order to make sure you’re using this homophone correctly, all you have to do is remember that you are, in fact, meaning to say “they are”. For example, “They are going to the movies after dinner tonight”. You just don’t want to spell it all out, so you say instead, “They’re going to the movies…” You see how that works? It doesn’t have to be confusing at all.


2). Their – third person plural possessive, as in “She took their cat for a walk on a leash yesterday morning”.


Now, I know that the “tried and true” spelling rule doesn’t apply here…you know, the “i before e, except after c” rule. The “e” comes before the “i”. There’s no mistaking that.


But here’s another way you can remember the correct spelling of this possessive word. Think of the singular possessive words, “her” and “his”. Look at the letters that are in the dead center of those two words – “e” and “i”, right?


Okay. Now…try to remember the old-fashioned, chivalrous rule, “ladies first”. See where I’m going here? Take the middle letter from “her” and put it before the middle letter from “his” in the middle of the plural possessive, and there you have it – theirSimple!


3). Here’s the dictionary definition of “there”. There (adverb): In, at, or to that place or position: “we stayed there eleven days”; “I’m going in there”; “the opportunity is right there”.


Now, here’s my tip for remembering the correct spelling of this word. The next time you’re writing and you think you might want to use this word (or one of the other spellings), ask yourself: Over where? Over there.


Do you see what happens here? All you have to do is change one letter between the two words denoting place – “w” to “t.” And that’s how you can tell if you’re spelling “there” correctly, in this instance.


Of course, this tip doesn’t really work so well in certain usages of the word “there.” I’m thinking, for example, of the following case: “There were two women who brought pink coffee cups to the breast cancer fundraising breakfast”.


But I’ll let you in on a little secret. That sentence is not as good as it could be, anyway. It’s way too passive. Even then, you can stretch it to say that the “there” is talking about a location (the breast cancer fundraising breakfast). Or you could rewrite it and avoid the word “there” altogether, which is what I would do. 🙂


And that concludes my quick and easy crash course in knowing the different usages for the homophones their, they’re, and there and knowing how to spell each one correctly. I hope you find this helpful, and if you do, I’d love to “here” about it in the comments. 😉

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2 thoughts on “Word Wednesday: They’re, Their, and There”

  1. Clever post, Mishael. Loved it! I hope more people try to swing by and read the differences among the words. I do hope your last sentence here was a joke 🙂 “I’d love to here about it in the comments.”

    1. 🙂 It actually wasn’t an intentional one, but I might turn it into one now!

      I do that A LOT, apparently. I’m re-editing/revising my first book (Shadows of Thing to Come/Unyoked/Shadows of Things to Come), and I just found where I’d made the EXACT SAME error in that book.

      I’ve actually caught myself doing it in process on more than one occasion, as well. It’s just that, most of the time, I immediately fix it.

      I guess that’s what I get for “hearing” the words as I write them (and read them). Incorrectly used homophones don’t SOUND like incorrectly used homophones! 😉

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